Find out when and how you can ask a Colorado court to change your existing parenting time schedule.
If you have a family law case in Colorado and the other person is not following a court order — like refusing to pay support or blocking your parenting time — you can ask the court to step in. Colorado courts take violations seriously, especially when children are involved.
Step-by-step: Enforcing a family law court order
Step 1: Figure out the type of order being violated
You can ask the court to enforce orders about:
- Parenting time (visits with your child)
- Decision-making responsibilities
- Child support
- Spousal maintenance (alimony)
- Property or debt division
Important!
Make sure the order is written and signed by the judge. Verbal agreements or informal arrangements may not be enforceable.
Step 2: Collect evidence
Before going to court, gather proof that the other person is not following the order. Examples include:
- Missed support payments (bank records, CSE records)
- Texts/emails denying visits
- Missed parenting time logs
- Refusal to transfer property or pay debts
Important!
Keep your own behavior in line with the order, even if the other person is not.
Step 3: Choose the right form to file
Choose from these forms based on your specific situation:
- JDF 1418: Motion Concerning Parenting Time Disputes
- Use this if the other parent is denying or blocking court-ordered visits.
- JDF 1816: Motion for Contempt of Court
- Use this if the other person is willfully disobeying any court order, such as:
- Not paying child support or maintenance
- Refusing to hand over property
- Ignoring parenting time orders
- Use this if the other person is willfully disobeying any court order, such as:
Important!
Filing a Motion for Contempt of Court is serious. You can ask for make-up time, fines, or even jail time in certain situations. But you must have strong proof. You will need to prove that the other party had the ability to comply with the court order but did not do so.
- JDF 1813: Verified Entry of Support Judgment
- Use this if you want to collect unpaid child support or spousal support.
- This may also be handled through Child Support Services (CSS) if one of the unpaid amounts is child support.
- If the court agrees with you and enters a "support judgment," you will receive a transcript of this judgment.
- You must then take that transcript of the judgment to the County Clerk and Recorder office in any county where the other person lives or where they own property.
- Once you do that, the judgment becomes a lien on any property the other person owns in that county. This means the property cannot be sold without the buyer paying what is owed on the judgment.
- Use this if you want to collect unpaid child support or spousal support.
- JDF 1814: Motion for Clerk to Transfer Title of Property
- Use this if the court awarded you certain property (like a home or car) but the other person is refusing to sign the title of the property over to you.
Important!
For any motion you file, you need to also file a matching Proposed Order for the Court to use when ruling on your motion.
Step 4: File the motion with the court
File in the same court where the original order was issued.
- You can file in person or online.
- There may be a filing fee. If you can’t afford the fee, ask for a fee waiver by filling out JDF 205. If approved, you can file for free.
Step 5: Serve the other person
You must give the other parent a copy of the form(s) you filed:
- By electronic service if the other parent has signed up for Colorado’s e-filing system
- Or by U.S. mail to their mailing address on file with the court
You must also complete and file JDF 98: Affidavit of Service, confirming how you sent a copy to the other parent
Important!
If you file a Contempt Motion, you must give the other party a copy of the form(s) a special way called "personal service." A detailed description of personal service is in our guide on Serving Divorce or Custody Papers.
- You can use the sheriff, a process server, or have any adult (not you) hand-deliver it.
- You, or the sheriff if you used the sheriff, must file JDF 98: Affidavit of Service proving the papers were delivered.
Step 6: Go to mediation
The judge may order you and the other parent to mediate before a hearing. Mediation is a meeting where both sides try to reach an agreement on the issues without going to trial. A neutral person called a mediator will help you.
The mediator helps guide the conversation and talk through the disagreements to try to help you reach an agreement, but they do not take sides or make decisions for you.
Important!
If there is a history of abuse or control, you can ask the court to excuse you from mediation. The court may allow you to skip mediation or offer special protections, like separate rooms or virtual meetings.
What you talk about in mediation can’t be used in court. So you do not need to worry about an offer you make in mediation being brought up in a hearing.
Step 7: Go to the Hearing
The judge will schedule a hearing if you and the other person can ‘t fix the issue on your own
- Bring documents, photos, or records that show the violation
- Explain what you want the court to do (for example: order compliance, payment, make-up time)
- Stay calm and focused on the facts
If the judge finds the other party “willfully violated” the order, they may order fines, make-up time, wage garnishment, or even jail time.
Things to Remember
- Stay professional in court, even if you are frustrated
- Never block parenting time in response to unpaid child support—that could hurt your case
- File as soon as you can—waiting may make enforcement harder
- Use Child Support Services if you're seeking unpaid child support.
Need more help?
If you are low-income, a senior, or a veteran, you may qualify for free legal help from Colorado Legal Services (CLS). To apply or ask if you might qualify, go to the CLS website and find the office that serves your area. If you call or visit, CLS can help you in your native language.
You can get help from the courts. Every judicial district has staff called “Sherlocks” to help people with their legal questions. To find the Sherlock in your county, visit the Judicial Department’s Sherlock webpage.